Just came from a beautiful post on family. A way to freeze the moment by mentallly altering its reality.
When I was a very little girl, I came apon this trick. I was traveling with my grandparents and I wondered what it would be like if they died. It transformed the ride for me.
Now I do know what it's like that they are dead. My mind is full of memories I saved from their lives with me.
I still miss them, but I do not doubt their presence in my life every day.
Hope your Memorial Day Weekend is peacefully happy.